Question:
How can one impart values?
Swamiji: Values impartation must be started from the very beginning.
Values are so subtle that even an elderly person will not be
able to conceive the idea unless it is concretized in an individual
acting those values in a given set of specific conditions. Thus
when you relate Harishchandra's story to the children, they
understand the compelling situations. Harishchandra's own son
died, then the mother brought the body for cremation to that
fellow who happened to be her husband who said, "Sorry,
ten paise is the tax, you pay it."
She
said "I haven't got a pie. ""Then get out of
here. My master has fixed me here to collect the tax. Wait
here. When the master comes in the morning you discuss it
with him. If the master says he has no objection, the matter
could be settled." So the truthfulness, the honesty of
words, you know all these from the story alone. You may forget
the story but the idea goes in. This is the method. In our
modern education we don't give the children any ideal. Data
is given but no ideal to pursue. Ideals must be given. The
story is not for history, it is for imparting an ideal. Give
it to them and they will always check whether their action
was morally good or not, beautiful or not. These children
will grow up and in their togetherness will constitute the
society.
The
social behaviour in any part of the world, in any period of
time, will be the sum total work of the team of people that
constitute the society. Each individual functions in the world
outside ordered by and governed by his thoughts. The quality
and the nature of the thoughts are determined by what values
the individual respects. If the values respected by the individuals
are wrong, the individual's activities can never be good.
Similarly,
if the values entertained by the community or the society
are wrong, their total behaviour will be only bringing more
and more sorrow to them. Hence, in modern times we are insisting
upon value based education. The healthy values, psychologically
healthy for the individual and, therefore, healthy for the
community have been experimented upon and given out as moral
and ethical principles.
First,
we have to conceive and understand and appreciate these values.
Thereafter, a mere possession is not sufficient. Each individual
should learn to live upto them. In order to impart them to
our growing children there is no way other than concretizing
these values through the heroic stories of people who have
lived these values
Hence the need for stories. The mythological
stories of India are perfect and artistic examples on how
to impart these values to children. Never can children's education
be complete unless we impart to them a true appreciation of
the eternal values of life and also help them to open up their
sense of beauty and rhythm, their aestheticism and ethicism.
That is the reason why we not only try to mould them with
our stories of heroism and excellence in character but also
give them a free choice to discover and develop their inner
secret talents for music, dance, painting, etc. if has been
found very rewarding in all our centers.
Q:
Although each action in itself is relative, yet there are
certain commandments, what we call values in life, that are
recommended by all religions. For instance, truthfulness.
What makes speaking the truth valuable? Why is it advised
as a general principle?
Swamiji: Truthfulness consists mainly in uttering a thought
as it is actually perceived. Ordinarily, a liar is one who
does not have the moral courage to express what he sincerely
feels. This disparity between thought and words creates in
his mind a habit to entertain a sort of "self - cancellation"
of thoughts. This impoverishes the individual's mental strength,
will power, and dynamism. Such an exhausted mental character
is too weak thereafter to make any progress in life's pilgrimage.
Truthfulness
in its essential meaning is not merely giving a verbal expression
to one's honest feelings, but in its deeper import it is the
attunement of one's mental thoughts to his or her intellectual
convictions. Unless we are ready to discipline and marshal
our thought - forces to the unquestioning authority of our
own reason, chastened with knowledge, in the ensuing chaos
within, we could not grow to realize the fuller unfoldment
of our true and divine nature.
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